compatibility

Attachment Style

How you connect with the people closest to you. 12 questions, about 5 minutes. Result in 4 profiles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful.

12 questions
≈ 5 min
7 languages

What we measure

Two dimensions — anxiety and avoidance — that shape how you connect in close relationships. 12 short statements rated on a 5-point scale.

How it works

You rate each statement honestly, no right or wrong. We place you on the anxiety × avoidance plane and read your dominant style.

What you get

Your dominant attachment style — secure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful — with a quadrant plot, a short read of what it means, and a shareable card.
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Evidence informed

This test is for self-reflection, not clinical diagnosis. Attachment patterns are learned and can shift over time, with therapy, and through new relationships.